The wedding ring

Ok this is a gonna be a short blog but I just need to vent a little bit. I have been married for almost 13 years, and so is my wedding/engagement ring. Well John has been talking about upgrading my diamond for a few years now but I just never wanted him to spend the money on it when there was absolutly nothing wrong with mine. It may have not been the biggest one but it was my ring. It was the first real piece of jewelry he ever bought me and he did it on his own. It means alot to me. So now I am pretty sure that he will try to fix it and make it "bigger and better" than it was before. I know he is only trying to be sweet but it was sentimental to me the way it was. On top of it all, I really hate not having it on but I can't wear it in the state its in now, first of all it looks stupid without the stone and second, its really sharp now and I really don't want to end up disfiguring myself in my sleep and end up having to hide my face behind one of those phantom of the opera masks. So this is what my ring looks like now. I'm so sad